I've noticed lately on my friends facebook status, that her comments are really not her... they are not nice and sound very vinditive... so the other night I wrote to her to say.. these comments are sooo not you??? She quickly replied that the person had been ugly to her for years and she was sorta feeling good because this person was struggling.
When I left my old job, I had some ugly feelings against the guy that I felt had made me walk away. It took me a journey to get over all the feelings I had about what happened that day in March 09 ! I explained to my friend, that I didn't know what she and her "old friend" had gone through, but the way I saw it with my situation... I could 2 1/2 years later be dwelling in that place of ugliness and let that situation have control of my life... or move on... and I chose to move on, this I know for sure, I know that he doesn't sit at home and worry about any of the people that he has hurt along his business journey, so why should I give up one more minute to him once I chose to walk away? Something else I know for sure... God helped me walk and has helped me through the journey!
I don't think posting about bad karma is the way to go, I think it holds you in a bad situation.
She thanked me for emailing her and she said she was going to try and look at things differently... I said to her.. you really are a good positive person, don't let whatever happened CHANGE you...
Life events can change us ~ for the better or worse~ it truly is up to us!!
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